how to celebrate valentine day with family

 HISTORY OF VALENTINE DAY 

The valentine day is celebrated in 14 February of every year . It is celebrated on the memory of  Saint Valentine . This valentine day culture came from Rome city of Europe . It was the story of 300 AD. At that time Claudius -II was the rules of Rome and he was a cruel man . After depth analysis - he found that - unmarried people are more powerful than the married people , then decided that - all youngster of of his dynasty are not allowed to marry any one and they are bound live unmarried life . He make a law - no one is allowed to marry any one . 

Saint Valentine - 

Saint valentine is one of the famous priest who was against the decision of kings order regarding marriage . Saint Valentine decided to protest against the kings decision and latter he arrested by kings officers and kept in the prison . When we was staying in the prison - at that time - the daughter of the jailer fell in love of valentine - . After some day Saint Valentine get capital punishment and before his death - he wrote a letter to jailers daughter -- in this letter it was written -that --" from Valentine ". This letter was the message to all society regarding to the heavenly love . At that time the Date was 14th February . 

MESSAGE OF SAINT VALENTINE -

Saint valentine gave important message to society that - the love and affection is not only limited in between boys and girl , it may be love to society , love  to parent , love to friend , love to grand mother and grand father , love to our elders . love to animal , here the volume of love is unlimited . 

VALENTINE DAY CELEBRATION WITH FAMILY 

In the western culture the family means - husband , wife and their children , but in our Indian culture the family definition is different . In Indian  society the most of the families are joint family . , The joint family consist of - grand mother , grand father , great grand father , uncle , aunty , father , mother , cousin , brother and sisters . The sad demise is that - Now -a days - the valentine day is only limited to boyfriend and girlfriend , which is killing the importance of older members of family and importance of parent and brothers and sisters . The definition of do not limited to boy friend and girl friend . This latest trend is damaging the great Indian culture . 

      

VALENTINE DAY CELEBRATION WITHE GRAND PARENT 

          On the valentine day we should pay attention toward the elder members of our family , who sacrifices their life for our bright future and better life . You should pay attention to grandmother and grand father and try to make them happy on this special occasion . Try to present some gift to your grand parent and bring some cake for them and take their blessing . Never try to waste your money only for your girlfriend and boy friend and try find out those people - those who are loving you from their heart . Make them feel that - they are also important for you . 

VALENTINE DAY CELEBRATION WITH BROTHERS AND SISTERS 

As a elder brother and elder sister - it is responsibility to take care of your younger brother and younger sisters . In the valentine day you should have to pay special attention toward your younger brother and younger sisters , try to make them happy and try give them some gift like Chocolate , sweets and other food they like . If you are capable then bring a cake for celebration . If you have money - then present them nice dresses and toys as they like most . Take them to meat their friend and try maintain a happy environment in your family . 

VALENTINE DAY CELEBRATION WITH PARENTS

Remember your parents are the real person - who loves you without any expectation . They are always sacrificing their life for you bright future and for your better life . You should not ignore them . Every one in the society can leave  you , but your parent cant leave you .  Try to take their blessing and no gift require for them - because you are the live gift for them and they are the live gift for you , but my request is to - always try to make them happy . 

WHAT IS VALENTINE DAY ?

It is special occasion or you can say it is a world wide festival , which provides us an opportunities to express our lover and affection toward our soulmate and our beloved one . It provide an opportunity to celebrate the happiness with our family , friend , colleague , classmate , boyfriend and girlfriend . It is a special day for all well hearted people to increase their closeness with each others . The valentines day is celebrated in 14 February . It is celebrated on the memory of saint Valentine . 

TRADITION OF VALENTINE DAY 

The valentine day tradition is an unique and important tradition - which has been continuing sine 300 AD , After the death of Saint valentine . In this every couple and boy friend or girl friend always keen to impress each other , they show their love and affection toward each other and they always try to make feel each other - that - how they are important for each other . They also try to impress each other and they give special gifts to each other and they attains party clubs with each other , most of the - rose is the common thing of presentation on the valentines day . Some time they go to costly restaurant to